Cindy's Blue Cup

Introducing...

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Phoebe Sue Swenson, born 11/27/11.
6 lbs 12 oz 19" long

Need I say more?

You'd do it too

2011-06-20T12:41:00.000-07:00

So this morning was Juniper's first swim lesson.

I drove to PB to watch the half hour lesson. That's not wrong, right?

girlie cakes

2011-06-13T18:05:00.000-07:00

When Brit was little I didn't have much experience with cake decorating (sorry Beege). But I was having fun with it when Emma came along.

Not that I've gotten any better, but it was so fun to make a little girlie cake for the bug.

I think she liked it.

Washy washy

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Sink is too small. We had to move to the bathtub.
Had a great weekend with family. What a birthday.

Emma and her posse

2011-05-21T20:56:00.000-07:00

This is what a 13 year-old's birthday looks like these days. Happy Birthday my sweet cowgirl.

You gotta try this stuff!

2011-05-04T20:26:00.000-07:00

I'm serious. Walk don't run.

Just for a minute.....

2011-04-07T21:53:00.000-07:00

This morning I got up to let the dogs out and glanced up at the view from the sliding glass door. Ya know the place between sleep and not quite awake, where you still do things on autopilot? I let the dogs out a dawn every morning and crawl right back into bed without really waking up. That was where I was this morning, and as I saw this view it registered as being a hill in Italy. I was half the way back to my bed when it hit me that I didn't live in Italy and went back to check the view.

No, I wasn't in Italy, still in foggy San Diego. But I swear I saw this hill in Northern Italy last year, sycamores and all. And after a brief moment of disappointment it hit me that, man, who can complain when you live in a place so beautiful it COULD be in Italy.
By this time I was wide awake so took a picture so I could always be grateful for the little things; like the view from my bedroom on a foggy Wednesday morning.

Happy Anniversary Fraser!

2011-02-08T21:06:00.000-08:00

So, tomorrow it'll be 20 years since this picture was taken. And I STILL get the date wrong. I gave Fraz his card this morning. So glad he thinks its funny, don't think I would be as understanding.
I love you, F. Thanks for putting up with me for two decades.

but I have it in writing...

2011-02-06T20:16:00.000-08:00

I found this note while cleaning yesterday. Its written by a teenage Brit during church, apparently on my birthday. I don't know which part I like the best. The whole rant about mom's fingers in kids mouths, which she totally does now!! Or the part where she offers to break the Sabbath at the Marine Room ONLY because its my birthday.

ps. The Marine Room is one of the more expensive restaurants in SD. Gotta give it to her for trying.

Say it ain't so...

2011-01-25T22:09:00.000-08:00

Someone is turning two in a couple of weeks......

Deja Vu

2011-01-07T09:44:00.000-08:00

I am going to recreate this photo with Juniper and Henry once the bug starts walking. Too bad I didn't keep those awesome glasses.

Merry Christmas

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From the Cathies

My baby loves lovin'

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She just might be the happiest baby on earth.

Emma's World

2010-09-15T21:15:00.000-07:00

Today I was asking Emma what to buy for her lunches and I asked what kind of cookie she liked.
Emma: Chocolate chip, but I don't really want them in my lunch.
Me: Why not?
Emma: Cause I prefer to eat them warm from the oven, sitting by the fire with a glass of cold milk; not at school, outside, with a bunch of cussing kids.

Hank says Thanks

2010-09-03T20:24:00.000-07:00

Sent Henry a little care package and got this adorable video back. (Thanks Ash for thinking of filming him, you made an old woman very happy!)The stuffy nose is the best part.

Henry,

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remember when we went camping?

I'm just saying....

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that this cute little girl kinda looks like Juniper.

Night before jitters

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Tomorrow is the big day! If you are free for a bit come by and meet Finnley Kate our little miracle, let the kids swim, and have a taco or two. Hearts to all who have supported this community effort with your time, money, and love. God bless us, everyone.

Four generations

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..of Webster women. (no one told me I had my sunglasses on)

this is my summer

2010-07-18T21:52:00.000-07:00

Why didn't I do this right when I graduated? My brain is old and atrophied now. Well, guess what I'm doing with my summer.

My cup runneth over so

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sometimes we just need to help people.
http://grantandbrit.blogspot.com
http://finnleykate.blogspot.com

#41 on the list

2010-06-15T22:50:00.001-07:00

#41 Ride a Segway. Check! Thanks to a few of my silly friends that went with me, we had a blast.

Oh Baby!

2010-06-15T22:41:00.001-07:00

I got to hold my beautiful new grand-daughter yesterday. She was very sleepy but opened her eyes and looked to see who was holding her. It made me giddy. She has her mother's eyes and full lips but she gets her hair from her daddy (Brit was bald for months). She is doing amazingly well and will be home in no time. Thanks for all your prayers and words of comfort. I told Juniper about all the people that already love her.

Check it out!

2010-06-04T22:46:00.000-07:00

#34 on bucket list: Park my car in my garage. Its only been 8 years!

new post

2010-05-26T21:22:00.000-07:00

Was told tonight that I needed to change my blog. So much time has passed don't know where to start. So thought this might be funny after the 'road trip' was up there for so long. Took this picture in Venice in March. Yep there was a Botero exhibit (we didn't go in) while we were there.
Sorry, Stef, I'll try and do better next time.

Road trip?

2009-10-27T23:11:00.000-07:00

There is a Botero exhibit at the Bower s Museum in OC and you know I'm going to have to go. And if you've ever had to 'go' at my house you'll know why.......

need a new book

2009-10-13T23:35:00.000-07:00

I finished my book (see below) and am trying to decide whether I am just going to start at the beginning again.

"..visitors offering their condolences, thinking to comfort me, said "Life goes on." What nonsense, I thought, of course it doesn't. It's death that goes on; Ian is dead now and will be dead tomorrow and next year and forever. There's no end to that . But perhaps there will be an end to the sorrow of it. Sorrow has rushed over the world like the waters of the Deluge, and it will take time to recede."

Its just quite lovely, isn't it?

Happy surprises

2009-10-08T22:54:00.000-07:00

I picked up this book at Costco yesterday, because the title was so intriguing. Knowing nothing about a book before you open the cover is always a bit unnerving but this one has not disappointed. It is written as a series of letters between people in England after WWII. The language is so yummy and makes me long for a return to hand written correspondence. Very like Jane Austin and very not like twittering.
How can you resist prose like this:
"I'm ashamed to say I only bought the book because I'd read elsewhere that a man named Lamb had visited his friend L. Hunt, in prision for libeling the Princes of Wales. while there, Lamb helped Hunt paint the ceiling of his cell sky blue with white clouds. next they painted a rose trellis up one wall. Then , I further discovered, Lamb offered money to help Hunt's family outside the prison-though he himself was as poor as a man could be. Lamb also taught Hunt's youngest daughter to say the Lord's Prayer backward. You naturally want to learn everything you can about a man like that."
Sad news is I'm already half way through the book.

enough is enough

2009-10-02T08:12:00.001-07:00

the eternal questions

2009-09-29T19:41:00.000-07:00

Remember when the easy questions were: where did I come from? what am I doing here? & where am i going?
Now its: do I blog, twitter or facebook?
I don't think I can handle it.

Happy Cave Day

2009-09-18T08:33:00.000-07:00

My sweet little cave girl and her favorite dingo! I don't remember my other kids ever celebrating 'Cave Day'. Oh well, it could be worse.

need I say more?

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Check out the photographer's website and blog. but the subject is pretty cute too, and he's all ours!

If only it was the thought that counted

2009-08-26T22:14:00.000-07:00

So I just finished reading Julie & Julia, by Julia Powell. Its a fun read and I would recommend it. Although almost everything she described cooking sounded completely disgusting (things cooked with bone marrow and cubes and cubes of butter) and I probably wouldn't have wanted a dinner invitation, I am in love with this woman for doing what she did. OK I would have come over for the tart fest.
It motivates me to finish my 50 before 50 list cause right now thats as big as I can go. But I want to get it in print and get moving on it, so that next June I can sit back, preferably on the steps of the Uffizzi, and feel a sense of accomplishment along with a warm pastry in my pocket.
Wish me luck.

Smile. I'm back!

2009-08-13T20:50:00.001-07:00

Things to smile about:
-Internet is back up!
-Got a Popup Trailer
-Great Beach Camp photos
-Saw 'Wicked'
-Saw 'Fiddler on the Roof' twice!
-School starts in two weeks.
-Saw Lyle Lovett in concert.
-Maggie seems to be potty trained.
-Cutest grandbaby ever seems to be getting cuter.

Thanks for being patient and not giving up on the bloggers living in this house. We are back on it. Things have been busy and I can't believe the summer is almost gone. Have missed blogging and checking in with my friends. Still trying to catch up and promise more photos to follow.

Tag, I'm it. (thanks, Brit)

2009-07-11T21:21:00.000-07:00

8 Things I did yesterday:

1. Canned 50 lbs of wheat flour
2. Picked a zucchini & cucumber out of my garden
3. Watched Emma jump off the Ocean Beach pier.
4. Tried my first Hodad's burger.
5. Watched 'Wall St.' again. (By-the-way, Gordon Gecko was wrong)
6. Made spaghetti bolognese for dinner.
7. Walked on the beach with my husband
8. Took a bubble bath

8 Things I am looking forward to:

1. Going to Beach Camp
2. Sunday
3. Junior Guards finishing
4. Eating a salad from my garden
5. Maggie being potty-trained
6. Having lunch with my friends on Wed.
7. Fixing my internet
8. Brit's pie

8 Favorite Shows:

1. Dog and Pony (Imaginary)
2. Momma Mia (Broadway)
3. Fiddler on the Roof (Broadway)
4. NCIS
5. House
6. All in the Family (TV for those of you who are too young)
7. Sesame Street
8. Anything that is NOT a reality show

8 Favorite Restaurants

1. Rubios
2. Shakespeare's Pub and Grille
3. Opera House (Guatemala)
4. In 'n Out
5. King's Arms (Somerset, England)
6. Hank's (Costa Mesa, CA)
7. Phil's BBQ (San Diego)
8. My House

8 People I tag:

1. Suzy
2. Care
3. Steffani N.
4. Beach Mommy
5. Natalie
6. Lindsay L. (hey, congratulations!)
7. Jenn W.
8. Ryan

ps. I didn't link the things I should have cause I am having problems with my internet remember?

I'm old

2009-07-09T21:03:00.000-07:00

Sometimes I feel so old. I am having trouble with my internet and getting any new posts up. Sorry. I am generationally challenged when it comes to computers! Just so you know, I am working on it.

Can anyone say 'Haw vaawd"?

2009-06-29T10:15:00.000-07:00

What the?

2009-06-22T23:06:00.000-07:00

So Fraser and I (and Emma) were coming home from Phoenix (see there is something about me and the desert!) and we saw this sign.

What kind of name is that for a street? First of all its in Yuma. How many numbered streets can there be in Yuma? In fact, how many streets can there be there period? Could they really have run out of numbers so that they had to resort to fractions? Really? Could they truly have used up numbers such as Avenue 748? Or Avenue 14337.

So, for arguments sake, lets say they did use up all the numbers, lets just say even, that there is a Yuma law that says they could only go to Avenue 100. Some genius comes up with the great idea to use mixed fractions? Thats the best they could do? What ever happen to giving streets cute names? Like Cactus Court? Desert Drive? Sunnyside Street? Coyote Canyon? Come on! There is the wonderful Zyzzyx Road out there as a living testimony to street naming creativity.

But, lets go with the assumption that 1) the Dept. of Road Naming in Yuma used up all infinite numbers, so, 2) they voted and decided to go with fractions (because they weren't creative enough to use nouns.) Which explains "Avenue 8 1/2" but then,wait for it..... they have tacked on the East designation! Which begs the question: where is Avenue 8 1/2 West . or Avenue 8 1/2 South? We didn't slow down to ask directions to any of the these other streets. We just stayed on the 8 and never looked back. Laughing and talking about the street names till our laughers hurt.

Humor me

2009-06-11T21:58:00.000-07:00

I love looking at other blogs that take amazing photographs of their crafty creations. Oh Happy Day is one of my favorites as are any shots that Brit blogs about the things she has cooked. I love it when the simplest item, such as a cupcake or a drinking straw, turns into a work of art.
So, when I made these little party favors for my last PTA meeting, I asked Brit to take photos so I could post them.

I filled old prescription bottles with chocolate kisses, added a label or two and a quote by Dr. Suess (You can never go wrong with the good Dr.) and voila! A Party Favor. And after Brit photographs them, they actually look pretty good. Art for art's sake, right?
(By-the-way, they were not all my bottles!)

Whats with me and the Desert?

2009-06-07T23:11:00.000-07:00

As much as I profess to love the beach it seems I only go on vacation to the desert!

Garden Update

2009-06-01T21:25:00.000-07:00

We are pleased to announce that our garden is growing......so far.

Time walks on!

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Look who's making herself at home...

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Newest member of the Clan!

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We are pleased to announce the arrival of
Margaret Scratcher
(AKA Maggie).

Puppy and family are doing fine.

Better than therapy

2009-05-14T22:55:00.000-07:00

This week Emma and I ran away from home to the happiest place on earth. Spontaneous and wonderful and just what the doctor ordered.

We met up with the Balaz Family and celebrated Susy's and Emma's birthdays for two days straight!

Included but not photographed: space mountain, thunder mountain, and all the other mountains, mint juleps, shopping, getting wet, Dole pineapple whips, Small World (which by-the-way is not that great after the 'refurbishing'), and about 1000 complete strangers wishing Emma a happy birthday. Love you guys. Can't wait for Camp Cindy!

El Gordito

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Brit's Day!

2009-05-03T13:37:00.000-07:00

Happy Birthday to my beautiful daughter, a girl who still knows how to make the most of her birthday! Happy 26th!

Shadow

2009-04-27T21:41:00.001-07:00

We are saddened to announce the loss of our dear sweet Shadow. She was at a friend's house and got out of the backyard and was struck by a car.

She was a good, smart, and quirky dog and our hearts are breaking. We are taking comfort in the fact that all dogs go to heaven.

Things I learned today

2009-04-19T18:22:00.000-07:00

1. Its really important the whole family gets to decide what piece Emma plays for her piano recital.

2. Its not a good idea to plant your garden the day the temperature jumps 20 degrees.

Its hot in San Diego

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Rock 'n Roll

2009-04-16T20:04:00.001-07:00

Stef, this is to motivate you to keep on running! You still have six weeks till the marathon!

my friend Juli

2009-04-15T22:58:00.000-07:00

I am organizing my photos and I came across the pictures of Juli and I while in England looking after Jean, my mother-in-law, who had been diagnosed with cancer. My friend Juli offered to fly over and keep me company. Now that's a friend.

Us on the tube after a day shopping in London.

We have known each other for about 20 years. Needless to say, we have been through a lot together. And a flood of love for this woman washed over me tonight.

This is a picture of her doing yard work at Jean's house! She came over to give her friend support and she cleaned house, gave Jean pedicures, weeded the garden, cooked, helped with visitors all while keeping me grounded and sane.

Emma loved to bring Grandma a cup of tea. We had to follow behind her carrying a second cup of tea. But Grandma made a proper fuss over Emma delivering her tea.

What a cherished memory our family has of being able to nurse Fraser's mother in her own home, during her last days. And as I revisit those photos I feel incredibly blessed to have Juli still in my life. She is one of the most amazing women I have been lucky to know and trust me, I know some amazing women. I'm not sure I have ever let her know how much her friendship means to me.
Love you Jules. I wish it was your birthday or some other reason I could be posting this tribute to you,. But maybe I'll rename April 15th "Aunt Juli Day"

Easter Morn

2009-04-12T08:50:00.001-07:00

In Pensacola,FL

We, (meaning Fraser, Emma and myself) are spending Easter Weekend with Grandma & Grandpa Webster. Stefan and Ashton and our new little duckling, Henry, are in Phoenix with the Guthries. Brit and Grant stayed in San Diego to hold down the fort and are spending the day with cousins at the Krages. Its all about families, traditions, and eggs!
I saw this picture in my mom's hallway and thought you'd enjoy seeing Brit at age one. My beatutiful baby.
Love you and wishing you the peace and joy that comes from remembering the sacrifice of our brother, Jesus Christ, and the hope and comfort that a new spring brings.

Happy Keester!

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Spring Break!

2009-04-07T09:22:00.000-07:00

I was able to run away from home for a few days (another perk in having Brit living with me) and I'm holed up by the pool someplace in Pheonix.

All I can grow is frustration

2009-04-04T23:43:00.001-07:00

So its spring and time for my annual attempt at a garden. I think it may go better this year cause I have backup. Grant is totally on board and with his promise of help and support I am moving forward with renewed hope! Although out of the eight small tomato starters I bought last weekend the dogs have eaten four; two of which were still in the little tomato egg carton thingies and hadn't even been planted! Do I even have a chance against the rabbits and birds?

I saw this book advertised today: "The $64 Tomato: How One man Nearly Lost His Sanity, Spent a Fortune, and Endured an Existential Crisis in the Quest for the Perfect Garden" by William Alexander (Algonquin Books $24.95) I have to have it! Its always a good thing when you realize you are not alone in the world.

April fools

2009-04-01T22:11:00.000-07:00

Today was a fun April Fool's day. First, I got Fraser good. I have been undergoing some testing and this morning had to have some girlie test so when I got home told Fraz that they found out what was wrong. I was even able to bring tears to my eyes (mostly because I was trying not to laugh) and told him I was pregnant. I wish I had had a camera. You could see everything going through his head and one of the more mild things he said was "bloody hell". I told the tech what I was going to do and she offered to give me an old sonogram picture to show him, but thats where I drew the line (hes old you know). It was really fun........although I'm sure he is starting to plan next year's revenge.

Then Emma and I made April fools cupcakes to share with friends.

Mashed potatoes and gravy (frosting and caramel sauce with a starburst pat of butter) and peas and carrots (skittles and orange tootsie rolls) The peas and carrots were supposed to be on top of a cupcake too, but I was too tired to frost anymore. (see above) Yummmmmmm.
We got this recipe from this book. It is a fun book even if you just look at the pictures.

Happy Stef Day

2009-04-01T21:59:00.000-07:00

Yesterday was my baby's 28th birthday. I am so proud of the man he has become and so pleased to be able to celebrate with him.

This is a photo of an Unbirthday Celebration at beach camp when Stefan was about five. We had un-birthday parties when we got together to celebrate all the cousin birthdays. I especially love the Fievel matching sweatsuit! I'm sorry Stef.

Oh Henry

2009-03-29T23:10:00.000-07:00

Over the past 24 hours I've been asked twice, "what kind of Grandma are you?" This was under the context of not having shared updated pictures of my sweet new grandson. So, here ya go.

He is getting so alert and expressive. He is a talker and grunts and snorts and seems to like the sounds he can make. He is even grinning. Don't tell me its gas, I've seen that. Henry tracts his mom and grins at her. Its the sweetest thing I've ever seen.

The photos were taken with my little snap and shoot not by his Auntie Brit. Could you tell?

He looks so thoughtful and wise. Can't wait to start hearin' what he has to say. Mom and Daddy are doing great as first time parents. They are a little tired, and a bit brain dead, but settling in to their new apartment and new life. We are so blessed to be so close and included in their lives. (and he seems to be growing out of the 'crying when Grandma holds me' stage.)

Economic Stimulus Package San Diego Style!

2009-03-25T22:24:00.000-07:00

I sleep with a clear conscience tonight!

2009-03-22T21:46:00.000-07:00

So, we were able to go horseback riding. Which was fun except for the part Emma said, "Mom, that horse moves as slow as you do".
You wouldn't know this place is about a mile from our house.

Then Emma went ice skating while I watched (and when I say 'watched' I mean read a book).

After an unscheduled nap and dinner at the Burger Lounge, we got to visit with Henry.

We didn't get to the frozen yogurt, but she did get in several rounds of Mario Kart with Grant. Which is way better........

All, in all, Girls Weekend was a success and I don't think the whole not camping experience will add to any of the necessary therapy Emma will probably need as an adult.

Girls Weekend

2009-03-20T22:24:00.000-07:00

This weekend Emma and I were supposed to go to Girl Scout Camp in the local mountains but because of circumstances beyond Emma's control we are not going. She was very disappointed and very close to tears when I told her so I've done what every good mom does call an official: Girl's Weekend!
Tonight we went to Rubio's for dinner and went and saw Race for Witch Mountain. Not one of the worse movies I've ever seen and have to say the 'Rock' is not hard on the eyes. I'm not embarrassed to say I may have a crush on him (which makes Emma roll her eyes).
On the schedule for tomorrow? Horseback riding, frozen yogurt, ice skating and a visit to Henry.
Can you say: Over compensating?

Good Sabbath to you

2009-03-15T14:52:00.000-07:00

I love Sundays. As the world continues to spin wildly outside inside my home things are calm and predictable. We rise early to prepare for church at 9, The dogs get the paper and this is usually the one day Shadow will let Bowie help her carry the ginormous paper to the kitchen. A quick bowl of cereal or piece of toast and we are out the door. At church the whole family sits together. In this order: Fraser, me, Emma, Brit and Grant. We really should put Emma one of the ends cause she likes to get up to go to the restroom and get drinks of water. After the service Fraser is off to golf and we go to our respective classes.
After church we have 'Sunday nachos'. That's it, every Sunday we have a small tray of nachos for lunch. Then we separate again for 'resting'. For me this means to gather all the coupons and adds from the paper and go to my bed and go through them and cut them out and then lay down and take a nap. I'm not sure what the others do but they are quiet and in the other side of the house.
Just about the time the house starts to stir again, Fraser wanders in from the links. We visit, watch some sports on tv, or take the dogs for a walk. And then, wait for it, we have Breakfast for Dinner Yep, a full English breakfast for dinner. While it can be overwhelming and somewhat disgusting if put in front of you at 8 am, it is a work of art and may very well be the absolute perfect food when it is served as a meal later in the day. This meal could very well be a spiritual experience itself.
I love Sundays. I love that everyone is at home. That the phones don't ring. That we are not expected to be anywhere, that we rest, relax, and mellow out and plan the coming week.
Ya know, "a month of Sundays" is always used in a negative way but I think that would the perfect month. Where do I sign up?

Ya gotta love San Diego, part II

2009-03-09T22:37:00.001-07:00

So, just so you know I am not morally opposed to fast food. Nothing says 'I love you' like an In 'n Out cheese burger with grilled onions and extra spread. And to prove that I also do not harbor any bad feelings with Jack in the Box in particular here is a treat for all of you curly fries enthusiasts (That means you Emily) I think my anger that day was directed at the Union Tribune and the bonehead who chose to give the story front page exposure. You're killing me!

Thought for the Day.....

2009-03-03T22:25:00.000-08:00

"Live your life in such a way that when your feet hit the floor in the morning, Satan shudders and says... "Oh crap...she's awake!!"

Ya gotta love San Diego

2009-03-03T14:28:00.000-08:00

This is just one of the reasons San Diego will never really be taken seriously. Yesterday, on the front page of the Tribune was the story of Jack coming out of his coma. Granted, it was below the fold, but come on? Front page!? How many of you even knew Jack was in a coma?

Pay it Forward

2009-02-27T21:38:00.000-08:00

The Rules

1. Be one of the first Three (3) bloggers to leave a comment on this post, which then entitles you to a handmade item from me.

2. Winners, you must post this challenge on your blog, meaning that you will Pay It Forward, creating a handmade gift for the first 3 bloggers who leave a comment on YOUR post about this giveaway!

3. The gift that you send to your three Friends can be from any price range and you have 365 days to make/ship your item. This means you should be willing to maintain your blog at least until you receive your gift and have shipped your gifts. And, remember: It’s the Spirit and the Thought That Count!

4. When you receive your gift, please feel free to blog about it, sharing appropriate Linky Love! If you are not one of the Top Three Commenters on this post, you can still play along. Post it on your blog; start your own 'Pay It Forward' chain, and encourage your blogging friends to do the same! I will leave a list of names who were the first 3 on my blog as soon as I receive them! I have no clue what it is I will make you.

I got this idea off of Brit's cousin's blog (thanks Katie) and although I wasn't one of the three that won, I thought it was such a fun idea and wanted to try it. Can't guarantee anything; remember its the thought that counts.

Almost as cute as Henry

2009-02-26T17:53:00.001-08:00

So, I figure if I stop buying clothes for the lil guy I will be able to afford this mini food processor for his mom. Apparently it cooks and purees food! But I would buy it just to sit on the counter and look cute.

The cutest family EVER

2009-02-22T21:03:00.001-08:00

I promise there are pictures coming. Once they are able to pry Henry from my arms, Brit will take some more.

I can't handle it!

2009-02-22T20:03:00.001-08:00

So, as if I am not anti-social enough already, someone has asked me to join Facebook. I am not even sure what it is but I thought it would be fun to keep in touch with my teenage niece who lives in Hawaii, Eliza invited me to join. Now I have 'friends' coming out of the woodwork, or the net-cloud (I think that is what Stefan calls it). There are emails daily to tell me to go check my 'wall'. Heck, I haven't even checked the mailbox at the bottom of my driveway for 6 weeks.
I love the new technology, don't get me wrong. But I can only handle so much before something has to move over, or out, to make room for the something 'new'. Maybe you have noticed that my phone skills have diminished in the last year or so, while my texting skills have improved exponentially. I don't know if I can add Facebook into my life because I don't know what I would give up to make time for it. I could give up dusting, walking the dog, or maybe lunch, but not sure my family would go for that.
I don't know what to do!!! So, in true Cindy fashion (although the picture is of Emma), I will not do anything. I'll just get dressed, stand in one place, and have a meltdown!

Sweet lil boy

2009-02-17T20:50:00.000-08:00

Whats the difference between chocolate and babies? Not much.
I have been going to see my new little grandson every day (twice today) to cuddle him, smell him, and just to sit and stare at him. What a miracle he is.
Someone once said that making the decision to have a baby is like making the decision to let your heart walk around outside of your body. It is unnerving to feel so much love and attachment to such a little bundle. But he is so sweet and yummy.

And if I hear that stupid quote about 'if I had known grandkids were so much fun, I would have had them first' I will scream. As much as I know I am going to love and adore little Henry, I can not imagine it will be more fun than being Stefan's mom.
I love you Stef, and have never been more proud of you.

We interrupt your day for .....

2009-02-12T22:31:00.000-08:00

Public Service Announcement:

Due to the recent economic crises, stock market crash, budget cuts, rising unemployment, unstable world conditions, the cost of insurance, electricity, petroleum, and taxes of all kinds, we regret to advise you that the Light at the End of the Tunnel has been turned off.

We apologize for the inconvenience.

Henry, meet the world. World, meet Henry

2009-02-10T23:06:00.000-08:00

We are proud to announce the arrival of Henry Owen Swenson. Born at 5:20 today. Weighing in at 7 lbs. 19". With curly blond hair. Ashton was amazing and Stefan is still speechless. It really is something to see your baby holding his baby. Our family is truly blessed. More photos from the world's best Auntie/Photographer to follow.

Who are those babies?

2009-02-09T20:59:00.000-08:00

Today is our 18th wedding anniversary! Who would have thought right?
I love you, Fraser, and look forward to 18 more years of fun and adventure.
You'll be a very sexy Grandpa and I'm glad you're mine.

Its always time for a Cookie

2009-02-08T18:45:00.000-08:00

Well, its that time of year again: Girl Scout Cookie Time!
If you haven't a girl scout in your life you can borrow mine. If you don't already have a favorite you can check on the varieties here.
Emma says that if you live in a "cool" state she will deliver them to you. Apparently cool states are: CA, Arizona, Utah, Alaska, New York and Hawaii. Not sure how she plans on getting them to you if you live in Alaska or New York, but we will cross that bridge when we come to it. (Not sure we even know anyone in Alaska or New York.) Boxes are $4 each.
Thank you for your support.

What time is it?

2009-02-02T22:44:00.000-08:00

Apparently, winter has been occurring some where in the country because Punxsutawney Phil has predicted that there will be six more weeks of winter. And when you use the word 'more' that is assuming that you have had 'some'. If we've had a winter here then I have missed it! Did I nap through it?
You know how Arizona and Hawaii don't adhere to day light savings time? Maybe CA has decided to do away with Winter. We can get by with just Spring Summer and Fall.
I'm ok with that.

Ashton's Village

2009-02-01T21:55:00.000-08:00

Yesterday we had a very modest baby shower for our dear Aston and little Henry , who is due to arrive in a few days.

We met at one of our favorite restaurants La Vache, which is a French Bistro.
Below are pictured the hostesses and the guest of honor.
Ashton received some amazing gifts and a ton of cute clothes for the little guy.
She also received vital advice and tips to help her jump into the black hole known as motherhood.
Paternal Grandmothers and Greatgrandmothers.
The food was yummy and the company even yummier!
And a great big THANK YOU to dear sweet Care who came up with the amazing Rubber Ducky Cake and cupcake favors.. Isn't she talented?

It was a wonderful brunch with family and close friends and we hope that Ashton is feeling more confident as she prepares for the cutest grandson to arrive.

When I WAS a kid...

2009-01-31T21:18:00.000-08:00

Emma needed corn kernels for a project at school so we bought a jar of regular (not microwave) popcorn. This led to an interesting discussion about how people popped corn before microwaves. I'm embarrassed to say that my 10 year old daughter had never seen corn popped. She thought that all corn had to be put in the microwave in a sealed bag, because there was some reason you could not look at corn before it was popped. Isn't it funny what I, as a mother, didn't think about and how she has tried to make sense of the things she sees in her world?
So, we got out the oil and pan and melted the real butter and had us an amazing afternoon watching TV and eating popcorn cooked the 'old fashion way'. I had forgotten how good the real thing is. Wonder what else she/we are missing out on?

A New Member of the Family

2009-01-25T16:44:00.001-08:00

Fraser and I went to the SD Home Show on Friday and I talked him into finally purchasing the coveted Vita Mix. I am in love! I have visions of a long and satisfying relationship with the machine. I have tried smoothies and chocolate ice cream. The smoothies were yummy but we settled for chocolate shakes with chunks of chocolate in them. I quickly named it a Blizzard and convinced Emma that was what I was going for.
I can't wait to grind wheat and quinoa for fresh flour. And apparently you can cook soup in them too. I think the KitchenAid is a little jealous though.
Anyone have any recipes that I need? Or suggestions for what I did wrong with the ice cream? Cause that is important, making fresh ice cream was the deal breaker for Fraser and I need to keep him happy. (At least for the first few months until the novelty wears off.)

My Dream Job

2009-01-19T23:10:00.000-08:00

I always wanted to work at Legoland and build little tiny fantasy worlds. How happy would you be working on recreating the Inauguration on the Capital steps under the CA sun!

Check out the guest list:Of course the Obama family is there.

Along with the Bush Sr.s (gray hair) Clintons (both going blond for the event)Singer Aretha Franklin and the George W's ( notice they were not even given chairs) hmmmm.

And of course the woman who set his little foot on the path to greatness: Oprah.
Although I can't figure out where her seats are.(Does it look like she has called a bedroom at the White House.)

Whats an inauguration without a parade!And the first signs of change in the air: A portapotty for every American!
God Bless America
And God Bless President Obama.

Mormon's can dance, but I can't

2009-01-14T17:14:00.000-08:00

For those of you who don't know, I am a Mormon. Being raised Mormon is, I think, very much like being Jewish. I feel my faith defines me as much as having my father's eyes and my grandmother's smile. I am so grateful for the grounding and the hope that I find in the church. Especially for the comfort and guidance it gives in these crazy times in which we live.
By the way, I don't care much for receiving flowers, always feels like such a waste of money. I would prefer a good book or a box of scotchmallows.

The calm after the storm

2009-01-03T03:05:00.001-08:00

December has been such a crazy month I don't know if I want to blog about it to catch up or just jump to 2009 and start fresh. There is something about 'closure' (sounds so CA doesn't it?) and sharing the pictures and stories of my life. But then I kind of want the feeling you get after you've cleaned out the fridge and you've made the decision to throw out the half of bowl of rice, 2 tablespoons of wilted cilantro and something red that has grown a beard.
I love THAT feeling too.
Probably best not to make a decision at 3:16 in the morning. I'll try and sleep on it.

word of the year

2008-12-31T19:39:00.000-08:00

I read a book last year where the women in a book club picked a word to set the tone of their year. This is the word I pick for 2009. Yours...?

so, this is Christmas...

2008-12-29T22:01:00.000-08:00

So many firsts this Christmas. I need more time to post pictures and write bits about them. But tonight my puppy bit my finger that she mistook for a biscuit and I cannot not type properly. So I will have to wait til the swelling goes down. But til then , enjoy this photo of my new favorite ornament.

and to all a good night.

2008-12-16T21:02:00.000-08:00

We were lucky to have seen this tree which is totally decorated by the artwork of school children. It was really something. And what was an added extra was they were building the stage for the inauguration right behind the tree. Not very Christmassy, but amazing none the less.
As Tiny Tim would say, "God bless us everyone."

Fun in DC

2008-12-07T17:24:00.000-08:00

Emma and I are in DC this weekend and while driving to church this morning we noticed all the flags at half mast. We were all making guesses about who may have died (I know, a bit morbid) the rest of the way to church. Someone there mentioned it was the 67th anniversary of the attack on Pearl Harbor, duh, Dec. 7th (dates have a way of becoming lost when you are on holiday).
The Navy Memorial is right around the corner from Grant and Brit's condo and we walked over in time to watch an old bent sailor, a Pearl Harbor survivor, lay a wreath at the memorial. Complete with band and color guards, it was a wonderful place to be and of course I cried.

Over heard while standing by the statue: Two old sailors, probably in their late 60's or early 70's; one speaking to his friend, "No, you were never that good looking!"

A Special Kind of Gratitude

2008-11-27T12:19:00.000-08:00

I can truly say that in all my years that this is a new sensation of gratitude and wonder. I am so blessed to be included in the anticipation and preparation for my first grandson. What a beautiful time to be alive.

Oh, remember, remember

2008-11-25T23:09:00.000-08:00

3 things I forgot I knew.
First, never get involved in a land war in Asia.
Second, never buy sheets at a street fair.
And, third, it does rain in California.

DC or Bust

2008-11-19T19:34:00.000-08:00

So, did you know that in the 5th grade you study about the United States of America? How many 5th graders have a sister living in Washington DC? In two weeks Emma gets to go to Washington and see things first hand and of course she needs her mommy to tag along. Which is really a sacrifice on my part when you consider the weather here is still in the low 80's and the weather there is, well, its not!
But we can't wait to see Grant and Brit and the Pencil!!

...another one bites the dust

2008-11-12T23:06:00.000-08:00

Well, its official. I have a new daughter-in-law. Stefan and Ashton tied the knot this weekend in a lovely intimate ceremony in Phoenix. I couldn't be happier for them. Ashton (as you can see) is beautiful, and clever and sweet and smart and we are lucky to have her in our family. Well done, Stefan. (More photos to follow.)

2008-11-03T23:25:00.000-08:00

Emma and I walked the Susan G. Komen 5K through Balboa Park yesterday with about a dozen of our friends from Avocado School. One of the teachers was diagnosed a few months ago and is out right now recovering from surgery. Emma helped me organize a school team and Stefan designed our logo. Fraser is scheduled to do the 3-Day/60 mile walk in two weeks. It appears the Cathie's have gone PINK! You are in our prayers Mrs. Thomas.

Happy Halloweenie

2008-10-31T08:21:00.000-07:00

So let me explain. Emma asked if we could dress the same for the school carnival. How many time do you get that offer? So I had to say yes. She got to pick the outfits and she is a very cute Wednesday Adams. I, on the other hand, ended up looking like a very pathetic Mrs. Adams, just out of rehab and probably on her 6th marriage. Pretty scarey!

Finnley Kate

2008-10-30T22:38:00.000-07:00

Here is an update for all of my friends and family who prayed so hard for this sweet little girl. Remember she was given only 3 days to live? Well, guess who is 8 months old and has 3 teeth!!! You can follow her amazing life and the courage of her family here.
And always remember that miracles DO happen!

Goodby my friend...

2008-10-30T21:28:00.000-07:00

Merrill E. Swenson died last week. He is the grandfather of my children from my first marriage.
Something you never think about during a divorce, as you divide up the tupperware, is that you have to divide up the friends and family as well. Some go with him and some you get to keep. Some of the best people I know went with the ex. Merrill is one of them. I will miss him.

Happiest Place on Earth

2008-10-21T23:35:00.001-07:00

Auntie Lorna is visiting from England and when we realized she had never been to Disneyland we organized a visit and the other half of the Cathie clan met us there. After a wonderful day in the magic kingdom I realized something: Emma doesn't love Disneyland like Brit and Stefan do.
Most of Emma's life I have had to hear comments from the older two like "You would never have let me do that" or You would have never bought me that" or "I would never have gotten away with that". Anyone with a large gap in kid's ages will know what I'm talking about.
But after seeing Disneyland through the eyes of 'adult' Brit, I found an example of some way I've failed Emma but not Stefan and Brit. Emma doesn't really get the importance of the park on the corner of Ball and Katella.
She doesn't realize that you HAVE to have a mint julep and a churro when you get there (giant pickle is optional). That you HAVE to try and pull out the Sword in the Stone. Or that The Small World ride is irratating in a good way. And that no matter how cool your iphone, if you've never seen the Electric Light Parade, or Tinkerbell Fly, you got 'nuthin!
There aren't very many times in a parent's life when they know they've gotten it right. But seeing my 25 year old daughter become 5 again I knew. And I think Walt himself is proud of me.

Over to the darkside...

2008-10-10T18:22:00.000-07:00

Well its official. I've been talked into having my own blog. I swore I wouldn't be one of THOSE people but then I woke up one morning and I was. My kids convinced me that my days were interesting enough, the people in my life were crazy enough, and my memory was still sharp enough that my friends would take the time to read my blog if I had one. So, thanks to my creative kids for setting me up and for encouraging this type of behavior.